While browsing through the Offbeat Bride Blog this morning, a very bold and unique wedding caught my eye. A Dia de los Muertos (Day of the Dead) Festival themed wedding, the featured Seattle newlyweds chose this custom theme and all of its vibrant elements to honor their deceased loved ones. From the colorful venue, to the wedding party’s unparalleled attire, to the skull-covered cake, it was clear that this event was replete with character, creativity, and attention to detail.

This posting initially grabbed my attention because it conjured up ideas of Halloween (a day I admittedly love); yet after reading further, my thoughts were sent in another direction. Though I have never been to a theme wedding quite as wacky as the one described above, I have attended a handful of them. Of course it is simply a matter of opinion, but it seems to me that theme weddings always end up being a great time for everyone. Thinking about why I felt this way, I came to the realization that are several reasons why theme weddings are so great, and therefore, several reasons to consider one!

Theme weddings are sure to memorable for you and your guests

If you glanced at the photo above, or happened to read the whole Offbeat Bride posting, you would have to agree, it would be hard to forget an event like this! Putting together a theme wedding takes a significant amount of time and attention. From save-the-dates to detailed reception to thank you notes, the final themed presentation will likely resonate with you and your guests.

Themes offer a perfect way to inject your character and favorite things

The featured Seattle newlyweds chose their Dia de los Muertos theme because it meant something personal to them. All of their unique additions and details made it clear they injected their own personalities into their event and had fun doing it. Ideally, this is what a wedding should be about.

A theme may make planning more fun, and less stressful

It goes without saying that wedding planning may be stressful, theme or not. In either case, you are hunting, booking, matching and organizing for weeks to get the look and feel you are after. At first glance, it may seem that putting together an elaborate theme may make add complications to planning, yet this is not necessarily true. Typically, a theme is seen as fun and quirky. When planning for a theme wedding, if you see something you like, yet it does not perfectly match or traditionally belong at a wedding, it is okay! The reason your offbeat detail is acceptable is because it indeed fits the theme, and probably will not be seen as odd so much as amusing or fun. In essence, a theme does not restrict your choices, but instead adds planning wiggle room.

Analyzing this point further, my sister and brother in law came to my mind. Being the laid back, low maintenance people that they are, they chose to have a beach/luau themed wedding and reception. Complete with a back-yard barbecue rehearsal dinner, a request that guests arrive dress-casual, and wedding party clothing change for the reception (from tuxedo coats and stilettos to Hawaiian shirts and flips flops), the whole event was “very them.” I bring this point up to mention the fact that at the reception, my brother in law was thrilled to be able to wear a crazy captain’s hat that he purchased during the previous Halloween season. Yes, I can see how it moderately fit the theme (captain/ship/sea/beach?), yet it was a stretch. The overriding point is that he found a way to incorporate his wacky hat, and therefore character, into his wedding, simply because he wanted to. The best part is, most people viewed this as fun, not ridiculous.

A theme wedding is a great way to utilize you crafty and creative talents

Creating or finding details for your wacky theme wedding may be as fun as the actual event. Once you get started on planning, you may be surprised by where your imagination leads you. Of course, not everyone is creative and crafty, which is why the following quote from the Offbeat posting is a great one.

Create something memorable, but don’t over-stress yourself. Crafty folks will certainly want to add a handmade touch to the ceremony, but remember there are a lot of talented people who can help make your wedding unique.

Theme weddings are fun

It goes without saying that if your event incorporates your personality, creativity, and favorite things, it will be a blast for you. However, also consider the fact that if you are having a great time, it will show, and inevitably your guests will too! If you put your mind to it, the possibilities for a theme wedding are endless!

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Kristen Desrosier